Tell Me About It: ‘I have a job opportunity I’d like to accept, but it would mean hiding who I am PROBLEM: I moved to Ireland from a developing country almost a decade ago to work with a large international firm. I have worked very hard, and my career has progressed beyond my initial ambitions. […]
Tell me about it: This was something I had never seen coming. I thought we were happy PROBLEM: Will my ex-husband ever regret leaving me and my two kids for his younger co-worker? This was something I had never seen coming. I thought we were happy. Ours was his second marriage. His first marriage only lasted […]
Tell Me About It: ‘I’m afraid to look for a new job. I fear that I’m a bad person’ PROBLEM: Recently, I lost my job. It wasn’t Covid, it was because I was accused of being a bully. I don’t know how I was a bully but I know I wasn’t the most “friendly and […]
Tell Me About It: I can’t have them at our wedding, but the ramifications will be permanent PROBLEM: The question sounds a bit overboard, but how do we disinvite my future husband’s family from our wedding? We are currently not on speaking terms with my fiance’s siblings. To be honest, this has been a relief as […]
Tell Me About It: ‘I feel down and hopeless since surviving cancer. I fear I am not living’ PROBLEM: I was diagnosed with cervical cancer several years ago. I am well now, which I am grateful for. As a result of cancer treatment, I have significant side effects such as complete incontinence and other physical issues. […]
Tell Me About It: ‘He’s not the man I married: he lacks ambition and takes money from me’ PROBLEM: My husband is a good man, he helps around the house, is great with the children and generally very supportive of me and my ventures (business or work). I believe he loves me or at least that […]
Tell Me About It: ‘The frequency at which he views porn while in work is also worrying’ PROBLEM: Both myself and my partner, whom I met about three years ago, are in our early 30s. For nearly a full year our relationship was casual and based almost entirely on sex, but we eventually bonded over our […]
Tell Me About It: I find her cynicism obnoxious, and we have little in common except our children PROBLEM: I have been in a relationship with my wife since we were both in our mid-teens, almost 30 years ago. Our lives have been very busy. All of our four children are now independent, with only one […]
Tell Me About It: I find her cynicism obnoxious, and we have little in common except our children PROBLEM: I have been in a relationship with my wife since we were both in our mid-teens, almost 30 years ago. Our lives have been very busy. All of our four children are now independent, with only one […]
Tell Me About It: I’d like a relationship with a male or female, but I’d prefer it without sex PROBLEM: I am concerned about my sexuality. It might sound arrogant, but I was probably one of the most popular lads in the village that I grew up in and had several girlfriends in my teenage years. […]