I’m between a rock and a hard place and I know I have to make up my mind soon PROBLEM: I decided to send you this letter to beg you to give me some light in my situation. I am writing from South America. I am a 54-year-old man who had been married for 25 years […]
I can either leave a friendship that has given me much, or I can continue in a one-sided relationship that costs me a lot PROBLEM: Here is an issue that has troubled me for years. I have a friend who lives abroad. We go back decades and we have a good friendship, except that I always […]
I feel so much anger about being thrown into this situation, which I didn’t make happen PROBLEM: I am at my wits’ end with a very unfortunate situation that has developed with my son in primary school. I would appreciate any advice you can give me, as I always get something out of your column. Last […]
I don’t want to be defined by the incest I survived. But as I approach 40, I have bouts of despair PROBLEM: I am a successful professional in my late 30s. I have good relationships with my brothers and sisters and many dearly beloved friends. I like my work and get on well with my colleagues. […]