After years of a long-distance relationship, I fear that when my husband retires he will resent my voluntary work and find his family life less perfect than he expects PROBLEM: There are two issues I am writing to you about: having a long-distance relationship and impending retirement. My husband and I have been in a long-distance […]
People are taking sides and the conversation stops when I walk into a room. I’m wondering if I should leave PROBLEM: I’ve been working in the same organisation now for 12 years and had thought that this would be my life’s work. The mission statement is very close to my values, and, although I do not […]
I’ve had no luck meeting anyone so far and I am nervous about internet dating PROBLEM: I am now six years out of my marriage and am wondering how to get back into the dating game. My husband was the first major boyfriend I ever had, and we were together for 12 years. The first six […]
On the run-up to our wedding, things did not go as I had expected. It was almost as if the plans were being made within my family without me being present PROBLEM: I have been married for just over six months now, and I am feeling pretty low. Everything is fine so far between us as […]